WHERE DOES IT HURT???? Print E-mail
Written by Jackie Pinkowitz, M.Ed.   
Friday, 30 May 2008
  
TGIF (Thank God It's Friday)   

 You’ve been juggling your family and work                                                 

responsibilities all week long plus serving as a devoted caregiver

to a loved one in need…..which no doubt included lifting kids

 and packages, walkers and wheelchairs in and out of the car,

stooping and bending to assist your loved ones, pushing and pulling

 more weight than  many professional weight lifters….

non-stop with absolutely no thought to your own health or safety.    

 

WHERE DOES IT HURT ???                                                                                                                       

I imagine your immediate response to the simple question                                                      

 "Where Does It Hurt?" would be:  “ EVERYWHERE”.      

 But Denise & Alicia, two dear friends who are fabulous nurses at a long term care

facility, dropped by the Café to suggest you take a TWO-MINUTE SYMPTOM CHECK... ..
                                  

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This Mother's Day: The Treasure Within Print E-mail
Written by Jackie Pinkowitz, M.Ed.   
Monday, 28 April 2008

There are some statements that simply are profoundly true. The following is such                                

a statement:                                                                                                                                                                        

Mothers and Caregivers consistently give an amazing abundance of kindness

and love with no thought of reward or reciprocity”. 

Long ago, an unknown author told the tale of just such a woman:

“A caring woman was traveling in the mountains and found a precious stone in a               

stream she crossed.  The next day, she met another traveler who was hungry; so 

she opened her bag to share her food with him.                                

THE PRECIOUS STONE

The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the caring woman to give it

to him.  She did so without hesitation.  The traveler left, rejoicing in his good

fortune.  He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the caring woman....

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HEAR THE SONG IN THEIR HEARTS Print E-mail
Written by Jackie Pinkowitz, M.Ed.   
Wednesday, 16 April 2008

It has been said that the loveliest definition of a friend is “someone who knows

the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the                      

words.”                 

I believe the loveliest definition of a caregiver is “that special someone

 who hears and caringly responds to the song in their loved one’s heart

 even when the words can no longer be said.”         

 Such was the case of our special Café friend, Kathy Laurenhue, CEO and publisher

of  Wiser Now, who for ten years heard and caringly responded to the song in her

beloved mother’s heart even as Alzheimer’s disease advanced and silenced the

words.      

The Gifts Within

 For Kathy, being positive was the cornerstone of her hands-on caregiving ....
                                                                                                                                       

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