Yesterday, I found myself doing pathetic dance moves to Justin Timberlake’s latest hit song. I was surrounded by 10 other women, who were joining me in this choreographed routine. Was this some sort of cut-throat dance competition? Nope. This was Hip-Hop Funk class at my local gym, and somehow I’d been coerced by my friend to attend. Whereas I was born with two left feet, she has been blessed with enough rhythm and moves to put anyone to shame. So by no fault of her own, she assumes that dancing will come as easily to others as it does to her. Well, it doesn’t. Trust me.

Never Again

When the class ended, I was never happier to get out of there. For a full hour, I had felt awkward, ungraceful, and embarrassed. But looking back, I brought most of those feelings on myself. Everyone in the class had been focused on her own steps – too focused to notice the uncoordinated girl in the corner. And though my friend had supported me throughout the whole 60 minutes, giving me thumbs-up signs between her flawless moves, I still vowed to myself that I would never take the class again.  

Live and Learn

Do I consider myself a failure? Not in the least. I gave the class a try and didn’t like it. Big deal. (I can act all tough now since I’m not sweating my way through some hideous double jump kicks). So I’ll toss it up as an experience.

But let’s not forget that from every negative situation comes a lesson or realization. So here’s mine: I love fitness. I thrive on challenging my body and taking my workout routines to new levels. But if I’m not enjoying myself, what’s the point? Of course I know that results are only going to come from hard work. And I’m not afraid of that. But there’s a difference between “hating” an exercise because you’re pushing your body to the limit and “hating” an exercise because your heart’s just not into it. Yesterday my heart just wasn’t into it. I know that there are plenty of other activities I can do well AND which I’ll enjoy.  In addition to choosing from a slew of other classes (currently Spin class is my favorite!), I can also jog, hike, or indoor rock climb. I am going to get fit, but I will NEVER stop being true to myself along the way. I have a goal, but I’m also learning that not every path to that goal is the best one for me. I’m in the midst of finding my path…and I hope you find yours.

Comments (3)

	1. 19-07-2007 12:42
	You can\'t have an opinion on something unless you have experienced it. Well I for one am proud of you for taking a step out of your comfort zone and trying something new, however awful it may have been, now you can have an opinion based on experience rather than pre-disposed judgement. For the record you did a great job in class. Guest

Sharon

	2. 09-08-2007 17:31
	Ohh girl, I can't dance either. Good for you for sticking it out. Guest

Alyssa

	3. 22-08-2007 16:04
	Love this blog! We've all been there. You are right. Not everything is right for everyone. Guest

Jocelyn

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